Comments on: Child Support Changes with Increase in Job Losses http://www.childsupportandsocialsecuritydisability.com/2010/01/child-support-changes-with-increase-in-job-losses/ Issues and Answers Wed, 04 Jan 2012 15:26:22 +0000 hourly 1 By: Mary Stearns http://www.childsupportandsocialsecuritydisability.com/2010/01/child-support-changes-with-increase-in-job-losses/#comment-319 Mary Stearns Mon, 25 Oct 2010 19:48:44 +0000 http://www.childsupportandsocialsecuritydisability.com/?p=102#comment-319 I'm a family law attorney in Atlanta, and I appreciate your blog. Thanks! I’m a family law attorney in Atlanta, and I appreciate your blog. Thanks!

]]> By: Teri http://www.childsupportandsocialsecuritydisability.com/2010/01/child-support-changes-with-increase-in-job-losses/#comment-307 Teri Fri, 24 Sep 2010 07:24:40 +0000 http://www.childsupportandsocialsecuritydisability.com/?p=102#comment-307 I have primary custody of my daughter and recieved little to no child support from her father who claims he lost millions in the stock market almost 9 years ago and at that time I was order to pay him 70,000 due to debt he ran up in BOTH our names and meanwhile he has not worked even when our economy was booming and I keep taking him back to court and just seams to be a joke...I need to be the one to find out how he is living all these years with no income...why is the burden of proof on me??? Meanwhile my daughter is the one who loses, no money for braces, new clothes, school trips etc... What happen to putting the child best interest first...Oh yeh, he drives a newer model Jag and has lots of girl friends, the court approves this! The legal system is not a justice system... Last time I went to court the judge awarded my ex credit on days he was sick and couldn't keep her...unfortunately she didn't ask me what I do when I am sick? I have primary custody of my daughter and recieved little to no child support from her father who claims he lost millions in the stock market almost 9 years ago and at that time I was order to pay him 70,000 due to debt he ran up in BOTH our names and meanwhile he has not worked even when our economy was booming and I keep taking him back to court and just seams to be a joke…I need to be the one to find out how he is living all these years with no income…why is the burden of proof on me??? Meanwhile my daughter is the one who loses, no money for braces, new clothes, school trips etc… What happen to putting the child best interest first…Oh yeh, he drives a newer model Jag and has lots of girl friends, the court approves this! The legal system is not a justice system… Last time I went to court the judge awarded my ex credit on days he was sick and couldn’t keep her…unfortunately she didn’t ask me what I do when I am sick?

]]> By: Christina http://www.childsupportandsocialsecuritydisability.com/2010/01/child-support-changes-with-increase-in-job-losses/#comment-266 Christina Wed, 28 Jul 2010 14:15:05 +0000 http://www.childsupportandsocialsecuritydisability.com/?p=102#comment-266 I pay Child support Yes i am a women. One of the Odd minority. Right I have been unemployed since october 2009 and have been trying to make a modification since my job lowed my pay since February 2009. My X husband kept moving states with my kids making it difficult to even get my visitation to the pint now since i am not working now he has our kids tell me on the phone they can't talk to me because they are not getting my child support. I have tried getting a reduction but Childsupport inforcement has informed me that since i am on unemployeement i can't get a reduction since it is only a temporary income. What can i do i do not want to go to jail and only have 4 weeks if that left on my unemployement.. I pay Child support Yes i am a women. One of the Odd minority. Right I have been unemployed since october 2009 and have been trying to make a modification since my job lowed my pay since February 2009. My X husband kept moving states with my kids making it difficult to even get my visitation to the pint now since i am not working now he has our kids tell me on the phone they can’t talk to me because they are not getting my child support. I have tried getting a reduction but Childsupport inforcement has informed me that since i am on unemployeement i can’t get a reduction since it is only a temporary income. What can i do i do not want to go to jail and only have 4 weeks if that left on my unemployement..

]]> By: P H http://www.childsupportandsocialsecuritydisability.com/2010/01/child-support-changes-with-increase-in-job-losses/#comment-259 P H Thu, 01 Jul 2010 02:24:16 +0000 http://www.childsupportandsocialsecuritydisability.com/?p=102#comment-259 T Social Security Oops.. My daughters father owes 250.000 in back support. He was just awarded Social security Disability benefits back to the date of application. Feb. 2009 the local office of Child Support enforcement sent Social Security office a notice of garnishment withholding. March 2009 SS sent CSE a letter responding that included a copy of that garnishment.So Why did Social Security just send the father the full amount of the award and not uphold Child Supports garnishment. I was told after speaking to SS that they did not see a garnishment and I was out of luck. Also that CS dropped the ball and I should call them. The manager of my case worker . Assured me that they did there job and there are documents to back it up. I have spent tens of thousands of dollars and years on this. I have 3 large orders by honorable judges.. My question? Is a Child Support Order only worth the paper and ink it's made of. I spoke to our Senator office today we agreed that I should act quickly and bring attention to this error. When working if I sent someone thousands or10s of thousands in error. myself or my employer would surely be held accountable. Thank-you for your time and consideration. Thank-you for having your blog any suggestions? T
Social Security Oops.. My daughters father owes 250.000 in back
support. He was just awarded Social security Disability benefits back
to the date of application. Feb. 2009 the local office of Child
Support enforcement sent Social Security office a notice of
garnishment withholding. March 2009 SS sent CSE a
letter responding that included a copy of that garnishment.So Why did
Social Security just send the father the full amount of the award and
not uphold Child Supports garnishment. I was told after speaking to SS
that they did not see a garnishment and I was out of luck. Also that CS
dropped the ball and I should call them. The manager of my case worker .
Assured me that they did there job and there are documents to back it up.
I have spent tens of thousands of dollars and years on this. I have 3
large orders by honorable judges.. My question? Is a Child Support
Order only worth the paper and ink it’s made of.
I spoke to our Senator office today we agreed that I should act
quickly and bring attention to this error.
When working if I sent someone thousands or10s of thousands in
error. myself or my employer would surely be held accountable.
Thank-you for your time and consideration. Thank-you for having your blog any suggestions?

]]> By: Stephanie Hope Arnold, RN, BSN http://www.childsupportandsocialsecuritydisability.com/2010/01/child-support-changes-with-increase-in-job-losses/#comment-240 Stephanie Hope Arnold, RN, BSN Mon, 22 Mar 2010 00:04:36 +0000 http://www.childsupportandsocialsecuritydisability.com/?p=102#comment-240 I am not in Georgia, but this is a great site for information. Due to an extenuating domestic violence situation with my family, I moved from FL to NJ with primary custody of my minor daughter. My ex-husband (bipolar felon with sealed records) got joint custody after trying to get sole custody, but I threatened his lawyer with all the hard copies of his moron felonies and raping me, etc. I am on SSDI and he is receiving $720 a month for a child I have not seen in 3 months due to advice from a domestic violence agency not to even call due to his verbal abuse and vile texts. He was giving me $500 a month and threatening to decrease it. My daughter did not suffer a 20 year Major Depression and I know it does not cost $720 to raise her. I had my own condominium and he lives with her and his father in a Senior Citizen Community. DYFS somehow got my HIPPA protected psychiatric information and I have no idea how to get his from 2 VA's which of course I took him to. We have been divorced for 10 years. I supported him in the marraige, I do not even know if I want to see my daughter and need to know if I can get some of her money as I had to come to NY and am looking at being homeless due to the lack of income (It takes 2 months to get your NY RN license switched from Florida--if I knew that I would not have came and it is the same in NJ.) Do I have any rights? I really do not want to pay a lawyer or act out of anger, but his never-ending abuse is out of control and I will do anything to stay away from him. Thanks for any help you may be able to offer. Warm Regards, Stephanie Hope Arnold, RN, BSN (The police just told me to change my last name.) I am not in Georgia, but this is a great site for information.

Due to an extenuating domestic violence situation with my family, I moved from FL to NJ with primary custody of my minor daughter.

My ex-husband (bipolar felon with sealed records) got joint custody after trying to get sole custody, but I threatened his lawyer with all the hard copies of his moron felonies and raping me, etc.

I am on SSDI and he is receiving $720 a month for a child I have not seen in 3 months due to advice from a domestic violence agency not to even call due to his verbal abuse and vile texts.

He was giving me $500 a month and threatening to decrease it.

My daughter did not suffer a 20 year Major Depression and I know it does not cost $720 to raise her. I had my own condominium and he lives with her and his father in a Senior Citizen Community.

DYFS somehow got my HIPPA protected psychiatric information and I have no idea how to get his from 2 VA’s which of course I took him to.

We have been divorced for 10 years. I supported him in the marraige, I do not even know if I want to see my daughter and need to know if I can get some of her money as I had to come to NY and am looking at being homeless due to the lack of income (It takes 2 months to get your NY RN license switched from Florida–if I knew that I would not have came and it is the same in NJ.)

Do I have any rights? I really do not want to pay a lawyer or act out of anger, but his never-ending abuse is out of control and I will do anything to stay away from him.

Thanks for any help you may be able to offer.

Warm Regards,

Stephanie Hope Arnold, RN, BSN (The police just told me to change my last name.)

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